Dream of Glad Tidings in the Transitionary Period

أعوذُ بِٱللَّهِ مِنَ ٱلشَّيۡطَٰنِ ٱلرَّجِيمِ

بِسْمِ اللَّـهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

‘I seek refuge in Allah from the accursed devil,

In the name of Allah; The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful.’

Date: April 13, 2024

Journal Entry: Bushra Lana (Good News)/An Intermediary Phase  

Once again, I had an insightful dream in the morning of 4th Shawwal, 1445; a few days after celebrating Eid al-Fitr.

 I saw the last moment of my life as I was passing away; I seemed to be bidding farewell to my family. Then, in the dream, I started to see from the point of view perspective. My burial was taking place, and I was being pulled down into my grave. I could see everything getting darker around me as I observed the horizon and the four corners of the ground as I rested six feet deep under. After being covered completely, I felt the contraction of the side walls. I started to feel scared for my experience in Hereafter. However, there after it started to expand and became spacious. The ground to my right starts unveiling from the top to bottom illuminating my grave as it unpacked to a room like environment. There was a man whose face was as clear as crystal with a fair skin tone dressed in all pure white sitting upright against the wall on a couch. His hair was seemingly white and parted from the middle reaching his broad shoulders. Similarly, he had an aura due to his beard that was white as well which made his appearance shine like a pearl. I felt as if he had been waiting for me. He gets up to embrace and welcome me. I asked him if we had met before because he seemed to have a unique appearance yet familiarity with his presence. He told to me that we had met at the plain of the souls (Alam-e-Arwa), and that he has kept watch on me since and was familiar with the tailored trails and tribulations of my life. He assured me to rest with ease and tranquility as the journey from here on now will be smooth. I started to weep out of awe knowing very well of the fact that I didn’t deserve to be given this glad tiding, yet felt a joy never experienced before waking up from the dream.

Now, I only bring this to the attention of others to mention that the struggle to remain sound in one’s faith should be a continuous task, until our very last breath, as believers in the religion of Islam. It may take form as small deeds, if done correctly with consistency, which can allow us to progress spiritually by staying upright. I am nowhere near perfect, nor do I claim to be righteous or pious, but I do make efforts consistently for an inward spiritual growth and outward practice as per the religion of Islam. Yearning to attain proximity of God (عزَّ وجلَّ) and His Beloved (ﷺ) is something I try to sincerely strive for by enacting the way of those [The Prophets, The Truthful, The Martyrs & The Righteous (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon them all)] who had been successful in following the spiritual path that leads straight to God Almighty’s acceptance & pleasure. May Allah (swt) always keep us sincere and steadfast on Islam as our way of life and grant us a good end with the last of our words to be the Testimony of Faith [لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا ٱللَّٰهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُولُ ٱللَّٰهِ – There is no deity worthy of worship save God (alone), and that Muhammad (ﷺ) is His servant & final messenger]. I ask Allah (عزَّ وجلَّ) to make the transitionary phase that is a barrier (Barzakh) between this life and the Hereafter to be better than this temporal abode as we hope for our soul to register in ‘Illiyeen’, God-willingly, and reunite with those who we love in the Hereafter.

The sentiment after this experience that resonates with me is from the poem “The House of healing” by Abū Muḥammad ibn Abū Sāliḥ ʿAbdol-Qāder al-Gīlānī al-Ḥasanī wa’l-Ḥusaynī, also known as ‘Abd-ol-Qāder Gīlāni (Persian: عبدالقادر گیلانی‎; 23 March 1078 – 21 February 1166). Gilani was a 12th-century faqih, Islamic scholar, theologian, and mystic originally from Gilan, Iran.

[In Persian]:

تا ابد یا رب زتو من لطف ها دارم امید
از تو گر امّید بُرَّم از کجا دارم امید
زیستم عمر بسی چون دشمنان ،دشمن مگیر
بی وفائی کرده ام از تو وفا دارم امید
هم فقیرم هم غریبم ،بیکس و بیمار و زار
یک قدح زان شربت دار الشّفا دارم امید
منتهای کارتو دانم چو آمرزیدنست
زان سبب من رحمت بی منتها دارم امید
هرکسی امّید دارد از خدا وجز خدا
لیک عمری شد که از تو ،من تو را دارم امید
هم تو دیدی من چه ها کردم وپوشیدی زلطف
هم تو میدانی که از تو من چرا دارم امید
ذره ذره چون جدا گرداندم خاک لحد
بهرِ هر ذره زتو فضل خدا دارم امید
دمبدم بد گفته ام بد مانده ام بد کرده ام
با وجود این خطاها من عطا دارم امید
روشنی چشم من از گریه کم شد ای حبیب
این زمان از خاک کویت توتیا دارم امید

[English Translation]:

Until eternity, oh Lord, in Your Favours I have hope

If I lose hope in You, from where could I ever gain hope?

Much of my life I lived in defiance: See me not defiant

I have been unfaithful, but in Your Faithfulness I have hope

I am a pauper and a stranger, helpless, ailing and weak

In one cup’s medicine of the House of Healing, I have hope

I know that in the end Your Way is Forgiveness

Because of that, in Your Endless Mercy I have hope

Everyone places their hope in God, yet in others too

But for a lifetime I seek [only] You, and in You [alone] I have hope

You saw all I have done, yet You concealed with Graciousness

And You know well why I have hope in You

As, bit by bit, the grave’s soil takes me apart

With every bit, in God’s Grace I have hope

Repeatedly, I spoke and acted badly and remained the same

Despite of these transgressions, in Forgiveness I have hope

The light of my eyes has weakened from my tears, oh beloved

Now, from Your Place’s Healing Kohl, I have hope

This ghazal, “Dar-osh-shafa”, is a love-poem dedicated to God, Glorified and Exalted is He. ‘Abdol-Qader Gilani expresses his hope in the Mercy, Forgiveness and Grace of God. In the face of his mortality and fallibility, he expresses his regrets, but nevertheless places his trust and hope in God, Mighty and Majestic is He.

Cognizant Zeal

Cognizant Zeal

[i]

Secrets of subconsciousness unraveling in the alternative theme.
Perhaps a Deja vu, recurrence in dreams; relishing in a mysterious familiarity which is in omittance from actuality.
A parallel identification that makes it surreal, yet so real.

Amidst all the noise in the ecosystem of the terrestrial,
Be sound internally while it is loud outside over irrelevance subjectivity over dominion.
In many forms, physically & metaphysically, yielding as ideals for apprehension.   

Wordplay, play of words, not of action in this miserly world.
And if actions do speak louder than words

Its pivot puts risk of disintegration in chivalry

If self-serving ego is favorable at a price value of material gain.

Dangerous only when consumed by the appeal of affluence

Resulting in decaying of spiritual dependency and subservience to divine decree.
There are many actors playing the role of a protagonist.
Intelligence as artificial as the means ends analysis.
Common sense deluded by perverse desire

Cannot suffice for just means when it lacks God consciousness.
Disrupt of balance by the opportunists with cancer autonomy lacking self-awareness.

Demoralizing the vulnerable with injustice.

Manipulative design by the conniving for the cunning,

At the expense of humanity at loss.     

Implicit inequity ruled as systematic error.

Culprits of division,
Whose seeds of ambition was sowed by the devil to begin with

Creating schemes for demise.

[ii]

Jealousy & arrogance root of disarray,

Misleading benefactor towards disbelieve

Satan knew better but turned disobedient due to it.  

Man was never the enemy to another of his kind.

It is the evil that is menace to society,

Where arrogance prevail,

And humility does not serve purpose.

Also, why self-righteousness can be a disease too

Because of the similar reason.

Is humanity not in fearing God alone out of the love of Most Compassionate.

Which reflects through our actions as compassion towards His [The Creator] creation.

The cure for its spiritual ailments is in the effort through excellence in purification

In the remembrance of God Almighty alone,

and always returning to Him [The Exalted].

Only thing which carries the weight is sincerity in the deed.

Indeed, victorious will be the ones who struggled fighting their way against their demons.  

Innate nature of man is prone to sin,

And is never in perfection.

Yet, laying rest in the matter of choice and the difference between the default or standard.

Establishing steadfastness & forbearance in submission of The Absolute Truth

Along the frail and impinged dispatch in the temporal.

[iii]

Matter of an equilibrium deal
Set between time & space continuum.
Similarly, to that of a pendulum
Clock ticking away through the mechanism of the physical realm.
Being alarmed to awaken or snooze

sets apart those who fulfil the covenant with The Truth,

And those who reject faith.

Rise up towards the spiritual enlightenment
Three-dimensional ultimatum of Mind, Body & Soul.
Allowing the innermost being to channel on higher vibration.

In doing so, should the soul awaken and surrender the lower selves to the Creator.

The One & Only, King of all kingdoms, to whom belongs all the sovereignty.

all from one,

One for all.

That is the cause,

For the seekers who truly have come to know God.

So, is it not The Light in which there is wisdom?

Trembling hearts & troubled minds taking refuge in nobody else worthy

Other than The Most-High to find solace & harmony of love to compliance with.

To unite for & defy against for the sake of The Most Magnificent.

Into the bliss

Come, let us draw away from this bewilderness,

Into the harmony of love to relish in.

Life is but a few days, my friend.

Here today, gone tomorrow.

Destiny draws its course either way,

Only God knows best.

If not now,

then so shall it be.

Fear can only hold back which hope sets free.

Such is the magnitude of mercy of The Most Majestic

In His remembrance do the yearning hearts find their spirit kindled.

Rising themselves from the dusty state of ego to soulful transcendence

towards the One & Only,

by whom the will is upheld in obedience.

Become whole in servitude,

to the Master of our fate.

Such is the delight in having an affirm faith.

So, let us taste the sweetness of divine ecstasy,

to embellish therein that awaits for the believing souls;

A precious everlasting ambiance of felicity.

In return of having beautiful patience & staying steadfast in the path towards true success.

To The Truth in oneness,

Coursing through this momentary phase in the present as a matter of fact.

Sentiment on Pilgrimage

The ritual of pilgrimage (Hajj) for the believers in Islam,

Fulfilling the rites of worship,

Among the pillars of faith.

The foundation deeper than walking on the surface of a holy sanctuary.

May His [The Most Benevolent] blessings & peace be upon those who came before paving the path which leads straight,

and the ones following their footsteps.

In remembrance of a deity none other than the One & Only, The Most Magnificent.

Altogether, standing shoulder to shoulder as equal by His [The Exalted] grace.

Shrouded in a piece of white cloth,

Identified as those who stand by their covenant with The King of Absolute Sovereignty (Malik Al-Mulk).

Doing circles (tawaf) around the house of God (Allah) glorifying The Creator of all creation.

Submitting to The Truth (Al-Haqq),

Reminder of the significance in unionship that binds each other to oneness.

A state of transcending ourselves in the spiritual nearness to our Maker.

Rectifying in purification through the cleansing of souls.

A traveler’s journey not limited only to the ones visiting the sacred lands.

But with every heartbeat that remains is an opportunity for the believers to step towards reaching the station.

Although we are prone to sinning due to the natural disposition.

Yet, the precious are the ones who return to Him in sincerity.

Spiritual enlightenment through revival of the faith (Iman) by performing the pilgrimage of the self (Nafs).

In full submission to the Master of our fate.

Seeking goodness (khayr) & an exceptional love that is heartfelt above all.

For the sake of attaining His [The Most Gracious] pleasure in this temporary abode and the one which lasts forever.

Making sure the return to Him [The Most Merciful] is in the state which deems in elevation among the highest ranks in the hereafter (Akhira). Amen.

Reap What You Sow

Reap What You Sow

Gratitude for the win

Live, Love, & Smile for it is a bliss

To seek joy in placing complete trust in Him (The Sustainer).

Selfish is the heart for being self-reliant,

It is He (The All-Powerful) who bestows.

Everybody is in need, who isn’t?

Give diligence where it is due, for God knows best.

Awakened souls pleased in acknowledgment of their Lord.

In service to others through righteousness.

Aims set to be from the people of virtue.

Have patience & persevere with courage.

For it becomes contagious,

Guidance under The Truth of Light.

Sufficient for those who grasp on to it tight.

As their fruits of labor ripe by the might of The Most-Gracious.

Inspiration

Inspiration

May God’s blessing & peace be upon him:

‘Khatam-al-Ambiya’ [seal to the Prophethood],

Messenger of ‘Allah’ (God).

A man who embarked simplicity & embraced elegance through thick & thin.

A Family Man [Husband, Father, Grandfather], Tradesman, Philanthropist, Spiritual Teacher, Militant Leader & much more through his life before & after prophethood.

A message that stood larger than life,

Gradually settling within chests across the lands of the Arabian Peninsula.

His persona was such relish.

A presence that left everyone in awe.

It would lift the spirits of ‘Sahaba’ [The companions] in enjoining goodness,

And not to aim for anything less.

Blessed was their union.

Hearts of men [Sahib] & women [Sahiba] embellishing in a cause no greater.

History had never seen a bond like this ever,

nor shall it witness the triumph of truly faithful ones again.

Only to walk in their footsteps, the rightly guided.

Linking the latter with a continual source.

A pathway towards enlightenment.

Set on the course as the firmly rooted, God willingly.

Under the influence of ‘Al-Kitab’ [Direct Speech of God] & the ‘sunnah’ [embodiment] of most beloved to The Almighty.

Secrets on Calling to God [Alone] & Knowing He Listens to Our Prayers.

Secrets on Calling to God [Alone] & Knowing He Listens to Our Prayers.

In Islamic tradition, there is the importance given to the ‘Qadr’ [Preordainment] of Allah (God). As Muslims, it is remarked onto the believers to have ‘tawakkul’ [trust in God’s (The Almighty) plan over ours] as we pursue this life. Thus, it’s important to understand that the will of God [The All-Powerful] is above all which he or she should practice submitting to through the course of this journey of life. Though, efforts we make are from our own free will. Yet for the believers, it’s made for the sake of God as He [Most Benevolent] is our Ultimate Guardian and Sustainer overall for everything (Health, Relationships, Wealth, Etc.) life has to offer. Truth is that our motive in life is never permanent. In fact, for a believer, life is a station which is not everlasting. A simple way to achieve a mindset that can uplift an individual to be mindful, during a time of calamity that befalls them, is by thinking of this life as a temporary abode. Hence, any sort of pain or disease an individual suffers from is temporary as well, and a reminder that we are only human; a vulnerable & fragile creation bound to stay dependent on Allah [The Majestic]. Even in prosperity, the importance of being in a state of humility is emphasized as the blessings from God are countless. And, so why is it that we do not rush towards our Maker asking for the cure to all our problems or even making this abode pleasantry for us in this life along with the hereafter also? It’s narrated in the ‘Sahih Hadith’ [Authentic Prophetic Sayings & Tradition] according to Bukhari & Muslim that Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: He [The Exalted] has not sent down a disease except that He has also sent down its cure. The sad reality is that most of us are self-sufficient, especially now more than ever as the world accelerates towards materialism extensively. It feels good taking credit for all the hard work and success that is attained over the time span. So, the remembrance of God becomes the least of the priority. We become forgetful of the fact that it is Allah (God), who decides for his servants of the blessings or trials & tribulation which bestows upon them as a test of their faith in Him [The Most Magnificent]. Surely, whoever is God-conscious and recognizes Him [The All-Observant] during every moment of their life will see His grace upon them in all their matters. Indeed, the state of gratitude is the key to achieve the contentment of the heart and troubled mind.

The Perfect Formula

In the name of Allah (God); He is All-Knowing & All-Giving. Praise be to His Glory: He is Al-Basir [All-Seeing], Al-Khabir [All-Aware] & Al-Mujib [The Answerer of All Prayers]. Indeed, we are forever dependant on Allah [Alone]. It is in our own best interest that we keep conscious of Him on a regular basis along within our prayers as if He could see us, even though, we cannot. By doing so, we acquire ‘Taqwa’ [Consciousness of God] and abstain from any form of evil and rejoice in that which is good. All our needs and wants are fulfilled due to God’s will [The Determiner]. Subhan’Allah [Glory be to Allah], the depth of ones’ heart is of clarity and known to Him [The Exalted] better than the individuals themselves. The figure below depicts elements of understanding that a believer should be in pursuit of, which are the following:

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Figure 1: Key Elements That Every Muslim Should Align Themselves with While Practicing Their Faith.

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Figure 2: Interconnectedness of These Elements as the Core of Having Right Foundation of a Belief System for the Believers.

Never underestimate the power of Dua’ (supplication). Each time a servant of God has his or her hands raised towards their Master; there should be no doubt that it’s not being accepted. God’s always listening & giving in various forms of blessings that we take for granted most of the time. Allah (God) fulfills His promise to us one way or another; in this ‘Dunya’ (world) and-or the ‘Akhira’ (Hereafter). Thus, there is a glad tiding for those who are from the ‘Sabiroon’ (Patient Ones). Indeed, God never lets down those who run towards him needlingly asking for His [The Most Merciful] favors. Under any given circumstances, it’s essential that we stay reliant on God. One of the positive signs from the mercy of Allah (God) is that of those whom He [The Exalted] has placed contentment in their hearts. And when any hardship comes across their way, they aren’t phased by it because their heart is at ease knowing God is their Caretaker. Moreover, they have attained the state of ‘Shukr’ (having gratitude) by being content with whatever Allah (God) has in store for them. Thus, it’s a smooth sailing under any storm that an individual may have to weather; that itself is evidently a blessing from God.

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Figure 3: The Correct Formula Towards Attaining God’s Blessings.

Once these elements have seeped within the mind of a believer, the outcome of it will present itself outwardly in their actions as much as the depth of it is absorbed within the heart. Therefore, it’s a matter of remaining consistent with the remembrance of God as a means for the purification of the soul. When that is accomplished; the rest is left for the resolution from The One & Only up above all skies, where the ultimate decisions are taken place according to the Divine Wisdom.

Evident Cases on Receiving from The Most Benevolent

In the book of ‘Al-Musnad by Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, one of giant scholars of Islam, there are numerous chain narrations of ‘Hadiths’ [Prophetic Sayings, Tradition & Practices] that were transmitted along the generations [among the student of knowledge & learned scholars of Islamic theology] since the time of the life of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H). In it he narrates that, Usamah Ibn Shuraik, one of the companions (May God’s blessing be upon them) of the Prophet said:

“I was with Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) when the Bedouins came to him and said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, should we seek medicine? He said, ‘Yes, O slaves of Allah, seek medicine, for Allah has not Created a disease except that He Has Created its cure, except for one illness.’ They said. ‘And what is that?’ He said, Old age”.

We are all prone to some sort of ailment at any point in our lives, and there is the medical treatment for it as prescribed by the healthcare practitioner who we go to check up within hopes for aiding the sickness or any physical pain that our body may suffer from. As we grow older, more signs of weakness are likely to occur due to the natural order of the cycle of life. Yet, the body functions according to the will and the mindset that each individual carries along within themselves. There have been cases of individuals who set ideals for themselves with having a strong mentality of mind over matter, and as a result, it shows extrinsically of their will to keep carrying on doing what they desire. Now, of course, this is easier said than done. The fact of the matter is that our body, as we grow old, naturally goes into the state of wanting to not proceed and exceed its limits. It wouldn’t be possible for the body mechanism to push more than it can as it weakens periodically, especially if it hasn’t been active consistently over the years. Also, there are many factors that can be elaborated on keeping a human body physically sustainable and healthy over a lifetime. Believe it or not, it all ties to what we consume and abstain from mentally, physically and of course spiritually. The ability to overcome all the negative commotion in life and staying positive throughout every step taken forward regardless of the challenges that arise along the way. In other words, it comes down to having patience and goodwill which is a process that initiates internally by allowing our minds to have good thoughts. Therefore, just as we would put our trust in medicine as the cure to any illness, it’s relatively as important, if anything more potent to have faith in God [The Most High]. He [the Exalted] is in control of all that is in the Heavens and the Earth; everything that is from the known and unknown to Mankind. Indeed, God [The Producer] is our Creator. He is our Master [The Almighty] who bequeath upon his creation accordingly.

Actual Scenario: Case One

Not too long ago, there was a gratifying sermon that an Imam [Religious leader; Community figure who leads Congregational prayers at a Mosque] gave during ‘Jumu’ah’ [Friday prayer] over the concept of having ‘Yaqeen’ [Certainty]. He unfolds the story of a man with an unusual case of illness that required immediate attention towards his severe mental health disorder, and how he was gradually recovered over time by the grace of God’s will. He was told to keep the privacy of the narrative by the family member who reached out to him personally at some point. This family had been going through a crisis and was overwhelmed by the fact that an individual among them was suffering from a strange case of illness that he was diagnosed with over the years. This individual had the earliest symptoms of maniac depression that later transformed into schizophrenia. Anybody that knows someone, directly or indirectly, who suffers from a mental health disorder knows the fact that it’s not easy being in the environment as it can be toxic. The Imam elaborates that everyone in the family had been affected by this tragedy in some way changing their outlook in life. They tried everything they could think of for the treatment by making appointments with few psychiatrists. They had this individual under different methods which varied from therapy sessions to notching the dosage of medications that were prescribed for the condition. However, their position seemed hopeless as the situation only kept getting worse. Also, this is a Muslim family who is well rounded in practicing their faith. They tried to go to a ‘Hakeem’ (A practitioner of herbal medicine) who is spiritually inclined and understand the realm of the human psyche beyond the technicality of the perception of modern science. The matter didn’t seem to get better for them until one of the members of their family, who actively tried to remain calm under pressure and always reminded everyone else to do the same as well for the sake of attaining God’s mercy. Eventually, the family realized that this is a matter deeper than what it seems. Allah (God) has always made those, who He loves most, go through severe tests to strengthen their faith. So, this individual’s brother didn’t lose hope and had been keenly fulfilling his duty as a Muslim. He increased his faith by remembering his Master more frequently; attending the local mosque for his own sake to remain steadfast on his ‘Deen’ [Way of life in Islam]. He held the rope of Allah (God) tightly and made sure everyone’s grip had been tightened as well. Slowly but surely, he witnesses the condition of his brother getting better along with the environment in the household becoming calmer. Indeed, Allah (God) is with the patient ones. He [The Exalted] accepts the prayers from his servants and grants them a remedy to all their problems.

Significance of Implementing ‘Istikhara’ [Prayer]

Many of the practicing Muslims consider this as a prayer specially made during the time of needing guidance over an issue; especially if it’s towards making major decisions in life. This is slowly starting to become a lost ‘Sunnah’ [Methodology] of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) since most of us are hasty in making our decisions in accordance with fulfilling our desire out of selfishness. Before performing ‘Istikhara’, the individual needs to be sincere with their intentions. Once that is attained along with making Dua’ [supplication], specifically for ‘Istikhara’ prayer. Eventually, a positive or negative sign is indicated to the believer, either through a dream or in physicality, as he or she set along their course. In simpler terms, things are made smooth or difficult to them by the will of God [The All-Aware] for their own best interest.

According to Islamic belief, dreams are of three types: the subconscious, from the evils of ‘Shaitan’ (Satan), or from the will of Allah (God). Mostly, dreams occur due to our subconsciousness. Anything that we have thoughts about in our daily lives, which we secretly desire, can occur in the form of our dreams usually. However, a sign of a dream from the evils of ‘Shaitan’ (Satan) takes shape in a nightmare mostly. These dreams most of the time are unsettling when an individual wakes up from it causing them to feel anxious. Lastly, in unusual cases, dreams may come to an individual in the form of good signs. However, these dreams are common among the men of virtue and piety. They may wake up from it feeling hopeful about a situation or the aspect of their dream can take form physically.

Case Two

There was this man who excelled at attaining piety through the course of years from adolescence into adulthood. Due to reoccurring complications, there had always been barriers that would come between him or any set goals regardless of the efforts made towards achieving it. Nonetheless, he remained consistent throughout the years while struggling in many attempts made to attain worldly possession, along with his tremendous effort to exceed in his faith. His transformation into adulthood was as a man of wisdom through all the circumstances he had been in, and learned from it, as he grew older. Upon pursuing a career in the field of study after some time; he was on the road more frequently, and glad to have gained some financial stability after all. Until he realized that it had compromised his ability to remain steadfast towards the ‘Deen’ [Way of living in accordance with Islam]. And, so he let go of his job hoping to find work-life balance and staying close to his family. Moreover, he felt the pressure from his surroundings (Family & Peers) to have been settled by now and get married. Due to his modesty, this man never allowed himself to become close friends with the opposite sex. He kept the interactions as minimal as possible because he understood very young of the temptations that can overtake physically, even though he was good looking himself. And, to protect and safeguard one’s faith is a characteristic of being pious indeed. Now before this man had quit his job; he got involved with someone who was interested in him, and likewise, this individual sought this as means of wanting to pursue her as a potential spouse. However, it became a matter of confusion for him as he didn’t have financial stability. Prior to when this began, he set his intentions clear by performing an ‘Istikhara’ prayer. Seeking guidance from Allah (God) on the matter of his financial means & right direction towards building a relationship according to their own best interest. Within a brief time, they both dispersed by being occupied in their own lives. He made a friend through volunteering at the local mosque who had just moved a block down where he lived. Coincidently, this friend offered him a ride to come to pray Jumu’ah [Friday Prayer] one day. Surprisingly, the friend was accompanied by his sister, who this man had been classmates with during his college years. At some point during those years, he dreamt of them being married to each other. However, it only remained a temporary desire because he realized it its nothing but a mere distraction. After this incident, he acknowledged this as a potential sign from Allah (God) because it hadn’t been the first time that he’d dreamt of something that had come slightly true in actuality. This really boosted his faith to another level as he discovers his need of wanting to utilize his time seeking pleasure in God’s remembrance and develop a deeper understanding of the religion (Islam). Over the course of his lifetime, this man ends up becoming the Imam [Religious Leader] and a teacher at his local Mosque as he builds his life on the foundation of having patience and sacrifices made throughout the years. Above all, he ends up marrying the woman of his dream (literally), Subhan’Allah [Glory be to Allah].

In ‘The Book of Assistance’, by Imam Abdallah Ibn’Alawai Al-Haddad, one of the pious predecessors from the lineage of the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H). It beautifully mentions the perception of having a consciousness of Allah (God):

Fear & Hope should be in equilibrium, just like the wings of a bird. ‘Should the fear of a believer and his hope be weighed, they should be found equal’. This is the state of most believers. ‘Despair’ is to be so overwhelmed by fear as to leave absolutely no room for hope, while ‘security’ is to have so much hope as to leave absolutely no room for fear. The man who has either of the two is ignorant of God and will inevitably neglect His obedience and transgress. For the one who despairs forsakes obedience because he feels it will be on no avail to him, while the one who is secure commits sins thinking that they will not harm him. We seek God’s protection against damnation and against evil destiny.

So then, how do we become more prevalent in the aspect of wanting to seek the pleasures of the life after this as well? The life that is eternal, and really is attained by sowing the seeds of it in the present one. Truly, we are at a great loss if the hereafter is compromised even the slightest due to the rigorous desire of the attainment of this life which is nothing in comparison to the one that awaits after this temporary abode.

Safeguarding One’s Faith

Among all the creations of Allah (God), human beings and ‘Jinns’ [Supernatural: that which is from the unseen world] are given free will. There is both, good and evil, amongst the existence between the paranormal and the physicality of this world. Indeed, God [The Almighty] is The Most Sovereign, who has the absolute knowledge of detail in depth of all worlds [Everything in it & beyond]. It should be a matter clear to a believer to have awareness of the realm of a force that is harmful and dangerous to our environment. Man’s biggest enemy is ‘Shaitan’ [Satan]; he has declared and taken upon himself the challenge to deviate humanity towards evil (self-destruction). ‘Iblees’ (The Devil) has taken a pledge by Allah (God) to make mankind go astray, by any means necessary, since the beginning of time till the last hour [The Day of Judgment]. Therefore, it’s relevantly a matter of utmost significance that the believing men and women protect themselves. Ultimately, that is achieved through having a strong faith and choosing to keep it safeguard by the remembrance of Allah (God). It’s essential to align our mindset; stay in connection with our spiritual identity through the guidance of True Knowledge and implicate it in our actions for our own sake. Much like cause & effect, the perception of life is according to our ‘Nafs’ [Human Psyche]. An appropriate balance is needed to stay rooted to remain firm in this life, and reach the eternal destination seeking the bounties of God [The Most Merciful], Insha’Allah [God willingly]. Just as loving the world is the origin of all sins, so also is hating it the origin of all obedience and excellence. It is enough to make you renounce the world to know that in numerous passages in the Holy Book of Quran [The Direct Speech from God] has called it the comfort of illusion. And, God [The Exalted] defined the world as being but a distraction and play to which no intelligent person should pay any attention and to which only ignorant fools are attracted. To be a fool is being among those who are drenched and consumed by this life that is but an illusion per se. In conclusion, there’s a saying by a certain gnostic that said: ‘My desire is that I should not desire, so that I may abandon that which I do not desire, and thus not be deprived of that which I desire.’ This ties well with an understanding of the believers who consistently work on not attaching their heart with the pleasures of this world, but merely have a grasp of it. Indeed, the best [among the righteous] are those who serve their Lord [The Creator] through good actions and preserve their faith with the remembrance of God.

 

Find Your Demeanor towards Happiness, Success Will Follow.

Two weeks ago, I was sitting in my class lecture for Statistics in Chemical Science. We were presented a numerical set of data relatable to a field scenario, and its representation through various graphs. As the professor was giving examples on informative methods and solutions based on taking control measures for probability distribution, he started relaying it from a chemist point of view; that the variance in results of any experiment relies on the ability of having followed a procedure. If there is a desired change that needs to be seen in the results, the methodology may require shifting. My mind was intrigued by relating that to almost every aspect in my life. As a lab analyst, documenting qualitative observations and quantitative measurements are required to study the nature of experimental process. Therefore, it gave me this curious urge to read my journal entries on emotion driven content from past events that I’ve felt the need to record over time. It may sound comical, but I’ve kept a journal for a long period of time for the purpose of self evaluating and improving on self-development skills. This time, it really gave me clarity on what may have triggered this negative space in my head that has kept me from completely crawling out of anxiety and depression.

Yes folks, the feeling of anxiousness and depression is felt by almost everyone at some point of their lives. The challenge is to face the reality of it. Well, perhaps for some it’s probably the only thing that may have allowed them to develop an ability to endure and keep progressing. However, for others it might just be a struggle to remain the person as they use to be.

“The belief that unhappiness is selfless and happiness is selfish is misguided. It’s more selfless to act happy. It takes energy, generosity, and discipline to be unfailingly lighthearted, yet everyone takes the happy person for granted. No one is careful of his feelings or tries to keep his spirits high. He seems self-sufficient; he becomes a cushion for others. And because happiness seems unforced, that person usually gets no credit.”

I came across this quote by Gretchen Rubin in 2012, and had an insight of my own to revive my school of thought at the time. To add in a little bit of humor and originality, I’ll keep this completely raw for the readers to see how amateur my writing skill was:

“Often, we get so busy in our lives trying to reach for our goals and motives, stressing about every single matter to not knowing what is going wrong in our lives. I get it, Life isn’t easy. However, it’s not that hard either only if you choose to believe it is so. There is so much to be happy about, and I know most of the times we tend to be in a situation where we can’t seem to find our ways to see that, but it’s all those little things in our lives that we’re ignorant of which is covered around our eyes like a blindfold. The key to unfolding that blindfold is feeling grateful of every single possibility that’s been thrown at you; good or bad. The power of gratitude can heal our pain. It can recycle our mind from all the negative thoughts, and articulate every single tissue in our brain with positivity. The power of gratitude allows us to see the light at the end of the tunnel.”

After reading this, I couldn’t help but think how trivial my understanding was at the time. Though, my heart was at the right place. Over the course of period, I was certain why I failed quiet a few times. However, I now recognize why it had to be that way. You see, I never really learned to grasp of my ability to work hard or even set goals for myself, until I was faced with different settings. In due time, I realized that I was rather invested in doing something I enjoyed more than anything. I loved being around the environment that challenged my ability to remain conscious of my faith. I was always thrilled by the livelihood of staying true to my friends and people around me. My personality illuminates by staying loving, kind, and taking chances on the people I care about. While all of that still remain true, it was understood that I was doing it all for the wrong reasons, and not keeping it real for the sake of my family. Nonetheless, my attitude has shifted to compromise a little due to unforeseen circumstances that made me comprehend what it takes to be promising towards leading a life I want to live.

It may have been difficult over the years of struggling and feeling like I hit rock bottom over trials and tribulation of my own, I always stayed on the plus side by acknowledging that it could be worse. Everybody is faced with harsh realities at some point of their life. However, it’s hard not to lose the ability to have full control over a mind, while we may already have the right optimism to stay positive from the bottom of our heart. If unfortunate circumstances are presented, the healthiest way to deal with it is to stay natural, allow yourself to feel the emotions completely to get it out of your chest. While it’s understandable for men to adapt “Tough act” or a “Soldier mentality” for coping strategies, I can’t seem to stress enough on the fact that our vulnerability only makes us human. Sometimes people would want to steer away from it. This will only prevent them from finding clarity. Don’t be afraid to show emotions, because the instant we start to avoid facing the reality of our problems as an individual, the more it’ll creep up in our head and take unnecessary space.

These are the 8 key reminders that helped me seek the right aptitude to stay intuitive:

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Find your Why – Self-awareness is important for us to start doing something that allows us to give meaning to our purpose. Find the reasoning within, to be able to start executing tasks on the daily.
Have Faith – Gain back the trust in your ability to cross any bridges and overcome unforeseen circumstances by having faith in God. You’ll realize, there was never a tunnel to begin with.
Redefine yourself – Connect back with what once drove your ability to stay motivated and feel good about yourself. Re-establish your hobbies and/or pick up new ones.
Let go of your concerns & replace it with gratitude – Don’t stress over what could’ve been or what tomorrow will lead to. You are right where you were meant to be.
Be selflessly selfish – Do not let people get in your way of owning up to your full potential. While constructive criticism is necessary, you decide how to maneuver and move along by doing it your way because you want to; not because of anybody’s expectation.
Success isn’t measurable – Most people are often irrational, self-centered and boastful in feeling self-entitled off their success. While that may seem reasonable, don’t let them ridicule your credibility towards redefining your own success.
Take charge on what you can control – Regardless of any presented challenges standing your way, you’ll always have the choice of working with what you have. So, proceed with the intention of growing gradually. Set goals for yourself, short & long term. Lay out various methods for implementing your long-term goals. Have a bird’s eye view for the near future, and stay visionary.
Nothing more, nothing less mentality – I’ll be blunt in getting this point across; with all honesty, nothing lasts forever. It’s important to ground yourself with humbleness, along with gratitude and faith. Achievements means nothing more, nor less as I continue yearning to strive for prosperity.

These cues help me regain focus to move along and progress on the daily. In the final analysis, obstacles or barriers that are imposed on our lives will remain constant. However, don’t be phased from any external factors that poses negativity on your capabilities to stay invested on the subject of your well-being. A true success is attained by finding clarity with who you are, along with, standing by your choice to see how you perceive life and owning it with full heart. Anything else is a matter of a societal manifestation of how one understands the standard of living, and abide by the rules best suitable to their customs.